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Finding a way through the darkness

When I found out my husband had been cheating on me, I felt like the ground had opened up beneath my feet. Suddenly it felt like anything I had believed in was unsure. After some reflection I realised that I had been blind about how badly our marriage had been going, and I can't live in that lie anymore. The only way through the darkness is to leave the lies and cheating behind and start over in my life, committed to honesty in all my relationships. This blog is all about my journey through separation and divorce into my new honest life.


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Finding a way through the darkness


Children and Divorce: Understanding Critical Aspects of Child Support

Child support is a critical issue that must be discussed when parents separate and before divorce. The lack of proper arrangements can compromise the welfare of the child or lead to unnecessary and long legal proceedings. Basically, child support is used to refer to the finances that one parent provides to the other for the single purpose of providing for their child. This issue applies to all minors, and both parents are responsible for financial sustenance.

Why You Need to Be Careful About Your Stage of Grief During Divorce Proceedings

If things seem to have broken down irreconcilably, you may be resigned to thinking about divorce proceedings. These can be complicated times and will often take a fair amount of thought and some reconciliation if a level of harmony is to be achieved. Yet this can be difficult, because both parties may not be on the same page in terms of their psychological position, and this can affect the negotiation. What do you need to be aware of, so this doesn't trip you up?